It’s crush season once more, with all the accompanying daydreams, blushes, and butterflies.
You have a severe case of the feels because you constantly think about them, blush when they speak to you, and dream of your future together.
There’s nothing better than a crush that makes your heart flutter. There is no other feeling like the one you get when you see your crush.
Regardless of whether you have a crush on a friend or a coworker, your feelings don’t seem to go away.
What strategy do you employ?
The obvious thing to do would be to simply tell them, but do you really want to put yourself in a position where you risk being rejected?
So, how do you express your feelings for someone without using words? It’s easy. Here’s how.
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First, How Do You Feel?
You must be certain that you actually *like* them before continuing. Yes, I agree. This is not one of those crushes that last a week. Or do you just really like their hair? Ask yourself if you could see yourself dating someone like that.
You could also try the “do nothing” tactic. Think about how you would feel if you said nothing, your crush was unaware of your feelings, and you were unaware of their response. Would you be devastated or essentially unconcerned? You’ll know if you should continue by the response.
Tips to Tell Someone You Like Them Without *actually* Telling Them
It’s never simple or easy to let someone know you like them. In fact, there are times when it can be so terrifying that you might want to stay away from it entirely. We’ve got you covered if you want to let someone know you like them without actually saying it.
Get Closer!
It’s true that saying it than doing it. The top of that staircase can be made to appear much closer by taking numerous small steps, though.
Remember the Little Details
Being mindful in all of your relationships—not just with your crush—is crucial. It demonstrates to the other person your genuine interest in their opinions. Upon learning about their birthday, send them a sweet card, a thoughtful gift, or even just a text message in the early morning. When your future partner talks about a happy memory from his or her youth in the future, pay attention. They will be touched that you listened if you casually bring up details from that story later. No matter how minor a detail seems, the fact that you remembered it makes a big difference.
Asking, “Did You Get Home Safe?”
The aforementioned expression is a wonderful way to indirectly show someone you care and that you love him or her. This query is an effective way to show your concern following a date, a chance encounter, or even if you two didn’t actually go out together.
Everybody values concern. Being concerned about someone else’s welfare is a very obvious sign that you care about them. The majority of the time, it produces the same butterfly effect as those three magical words do. You can also say “I love you” in a secret message riddle. Don’t be afraid to be corny. Nothing seems too corny or sentimental when you’re in love.
Use Social Media
Interacting with your crush on social media is incredibly simple. You can leave likes and comments on their pictures, reply to their stories and start a conversation, or DM them with amusing TikToks or memes. Without you having to say anything, they’ll realize pretty quickly that you want to talk to them. Try to get pictures of the two of you whenever you are with each other or in the same group so that you have a tangible reminder of your developing relationship and friendship.
Write a Little Note Or Card
Romantic texts have become commonplace in today’s technologically advanced world, whereas writing notes and letters is a revolutionary act. They have an evocative, vintage romance about them that makes it possible to express your feelings for someone without risking rejection.
Without necessarily saying any big words, a tiny note that goes “Have a day as fabulous as you are” can leave your boo feeling giddy through the day. Here’s how to express your love for someone. Songs, poetry, and written correspondence make excellent messengers. Even if you don’t consider yourself to be poetic, you can still make your partner feel swoon-worthy with a few well-chosen lines from a sonnet.
Your Body Talks, Too
If you want to get closer to your crush, this might be a sign.*
Physically Close
Sometimes, actions speak louder than words. By indicating that you want to be physically closer to them, you are implying that you also want to be emotionally and romantically closer. They’ll feel less comfortable around you subconsciously if you gradually introduce more light physical contact, and they might even pick up on your emotions. Make sure they are completely at ease and comfortable with it as well. Keep it light.
*Secret tip*
If you’re not a super touchy person, try making a secret handshake instead! It’s a subtle way for more physical contact, plus the two of you will have your own special little thing
Mirror Actions
Most likely, you already practice this. When we like someone, we often act in a similar manner, so if they smile, we often return the favor. Likewise, when someone laughs, we often join in. Even though it might seem like copying someone else, it’s actually a natural way to establish rapport.
Be Confident
Remember that you are also amazing and fascinating, even though you may think your crush is endlessly fascinating. Maintaining confidence will help you communicate your intentions in all of your interactions clearly and without sending any confusing signals. Ask your best friends to list all the reasons why they think you are awesome if you need a reminder.
Drop Hints
You’re already letting your crush know that you like them by making an effort to be around them. However, there are a few things you can try if you want to speed things up a bit.
Compliments
A sincere compliment is always appreciated, and your crush is no different. Genuine is the operative word here. Anything from “you have gorgeous eyes” to grinning at their jokes, with enough compliments, your crush will probs register your interest.
Give Them a Sweet Nickname
Are you unsure of the best way to express your love to someone? Give them smooshy, slightly embarrassing nicknames. For a very long time, Katie called her boyfriend Mittens. His real name was Max, and he adored donning mittens during the winter. It was humorous but endearing in Katie’s opinion.
Max would frequently groan and grimace in response to the moniker, but he also secretly adored it. Giving someone a nickname and using it consistently communicates your desire to make them feel special.
Make Them Feel Special on Their Birthday
Making them feel special on a daily basis is a good idea, then. But on those special days, step up your efforts. They should be showered with affection and given thoughtful treatment. Give them breakfast in bed. Their favorite flowers will surprise them. Plan a simple date night to show someone you care about them without actually saying it.
The efforts and thoughts are significant. It’s a testament to your feelings that you’re going above and beyond to make them feel special and loved. Without a doubt, they will recognize the cue and figure out your secret love message.
Therefore, it should be clear that your love need not be limited to these simple three words. Your love has no boundaries and shows in everything you do. To foster a deeper connection, use them wisely to express your emotions in a healthy way!
Enlist the Wingman (or Woman)
To take a shortcut, try casually mentioning to your crush’s best friend that you like them or find them interesting. Saying something like, “they’re kinda cute” will perk up their bestie’s ears, and before you know it, your crush will be in the know too. The added benefit of this trick is that you won’t actually experience rejection because you’ll be able to tell from your crush’s behavior over the next few weeks if they share your sentiments. If they begin to hint as well, take your shot! It’s probably time to move on if they display a distant and awkward demeanor.
Stay Positive
You might feel like hiding in a hole if you think that your crush doesn’t feel the same way about you. Zooming out to get a better perspective is necessary at times.
The sky won’t fall, despite how it may seem at the time if the crushing isn’t reciprocal. We’ve all experienced rejection at some point, and as corny as it may sound, it makes you stronger.
It’s important to remember to stay true to yourself, and I’m not going to lie—that’s *scary—even though getting them to like you back is the aim.* Putting yourself out there carries a lot of risks, but as they say, “high risk, high reward.”
FAQs
How can you show someone you care without using words?
By demonstrating your concern, being considerate, and making small gestures for them, you can show someone you care about them. In contrast to words, actions speak louder than words. Through your considerate actions, let them know how much they mean to you.
How do you confess your secret love for someone?
You can express your hidden affection for someone through your actions. You can show interest in everything they do and be a source of support for them by showing concern, care, and interest.
How soon is too soon to express your love?
We advise you to reserve saying something until you are absolutely certain that it is what you mean. It is unacceptable to merely say those three words for the sake of saying them. People usually say, “Love you” after three months of dating although many people say it earlier. This is entirely arbitrary and is based on how comfortable and compatible the parties are with one another.